There are a million reasons your manager might be frustrated with you, and not all of them are within your control. But if you start by doing your job, and improving over time, you’ll be able to better handle the situation, even if she’s just hangry.

Vanessa & Holland give three strategies for how to keep your exit strategy fresh — so you can make your next move with confidence, and get what you want.

Vanessa & Holland introduce Ask Your Work Wife, a new podcast for ambitious, career-oriented women who want more out of corporate America.